You just never know
Friday, November 25, 2011 at 4:02PM
Jim Bird It seems to me that it’s one’s own well-intentioned investment that is the biggest problem.
You want it to work, you want to hear the client get something out of it, you hope it makes a difference. All these things are well meant, but to me, distractions, from what is a very disciplined approach.
When I studied at Brief, the tutors gave me a very helpful insight: The question you ask is the intervention, the clients thinking and answer is the therapy.
This is a good reminder to me, that just because the answer might sound like this is not doing the client any good at all, you just never know. Having worked very hard in two recent sessions, I was beginning to think; can SF help this person? what will progress look like? At the end of the sessions I always ask the client if they want to see me again. To my surprise both clients were very enthusiastic and said how much the conversations are helping them.
I guess you never know the power of some good, well placed SF questions. I am just resolved to trusting in the approach and its process and believing a difference can be made, even when it appears almost impossible to do.
Jim Bird-Waddington


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